15 Must-Have Bedroom Items that Elevate Intimacy

 

In most homes the bedroom is a let go area from the hustle of our daily lives, so much so, that we focus on comfort and forget the intimacy aspect of our shared space as couples.

According to Sexologist Jessica O’Reilly author of sex with Dr Jess, the objects in your bedroom do influence your intimacy as a couple.

In light of this, maybe you should make your bedroom more of a haven for passion, romance, and intimate connections?

In this post we explore 15 must have bedroom items that will transform your room into a love-nest of desire.

Whether your looking to ignite the spark or create a deeper connection, these enhancements are a bold statement at your desire to create an ambiance of love and connection

1. Dimmable Lighting:

We start off the list with a very obvious must have among your bedroom items.

Adjustable lighting can create a very intimate, soft, warm ambiance for a quiet evening or a dimmed, sultry glow to set the stage for intimacy. 

They add a sophistication to your bedroom and also allow you to go  deeper and allocate each lighting setup to a romantic mood. 

If the light is red or fairly dim then you want to cuddle, if it’s too dim or blue then sex is on the table.

These lights are fun and a great way to communicate your desires without actually saying it.

2. Luxurious Silk Bedding: 

If you have been to luxurious hotel then you can attest to the pleasure of minute bedroom items such as soft, high-quality sheets and comfortable pillows rubbing on your skin.

Luxurious Silk Bedding alleviate bedroom intimacy by indulging the senses and setting providence to an intimate moment.

Despite the aesthetics, luxurious beddings provide comfort for you as a couple, while creating an escape from the  demands of life and setting the perfect backdrop for shared moments of connection and passion.

3. Scented Candles: 

Have you found that certain scents can remind you of a person, place or moment.

What is that scent that nudges your desire?

Scented candles are amazing bedroom items, they have a perfect level of aromatherapy and can add a sensual element to the environment, not too much to irritate but enough to stir up the sensory system.

You should carefully select the different scents per your moods and preferences to create a sensorial journey of passion and intimacy.

4. Matching Bathrobes:

Now imagine taking a warm shower after a long day, putting on some comfortable marching bath robes and just having a drink as you converse about your day.

Does that feel like a tradition worth adapting?

Matching robes are bedroom items that create a scene of shared comfort and connection.

These shared routines can transform your shared space into a realm of unique intimacy, where love can be expressed.

5. Sound system: 

Is there a song that just arouses your intimacy senses? 

Do you have a shared song as a couple?, maybe the one you danced to on your wedding day.

Or better yet you can create a playlist that enhances the mood.

A sound system is a perfect item to add among your bedroom items as you enhance your bedroom intimacy.

The right tune has the ability to heighten the overall ambiance of your shared space, and setting room for some intimate encounters.

6. Mirrors: 

Beyond their practical use mirrors are a perfect addition to your bedroom items they enhance intimacy as they add depth and connection.

If placed strategically you’re able to capture as the passion unfolds.

The reflection of intimacy from different angles allows partners to appreciate the connection of shared moments.

Mirrors also have the ability to create an illusion of expansion of the available space.

Related: 13 Common Intimacy Issues and how to Overcome them

7. Massage Oils: 

These will always come in handy.

Whether it’s after a long stressful day or dealing with a strained nerve, a relaxing session of massage is a perfect way to get the ball rolling on intimacy.

They are also available in different  scents that will definitely arouse the already relaxed mind.

Massage oils will always be a great bedroom intimacy enhancer, even when it leads to a deep captivating conversation the effort in offering this act of service is profound and highly appreciated.

8. Personalized Decor:

Sometimes it takes a slight boost like just lying down and looking at an old photo that reminds you of how far you have come or sentimental decor that reminds you of a shared moment.

Shared memories have a unique way of arousing an emotional aspect which gives your connection a more meaningful narrative.

9. Plush Rugs or Carpets: 

Getting out of bed and you can feel soft textures underfoot, adds an overall comfort and warmth to the space.

Plush rugs are also decorative and make the small space look homely.

Plus if the bed feels too common, it’s best to have options and a plush floor could be perfect *winks.

10.Lingerie or pajamas: 

They say sight is the gateway to the soul

Going to bed together should not be taken for granted, it is the moment to look good for your partner and as a partner appreciate the effort. 

Invest in some good nightwear based on the various moods, an intimate night deserves sexy lingerie and a laid back night a silk pajama should be perfect.

lingerie is a whispered promise, an intimate language spoken through sight it also has the ability to boost your confidence and aura.

11. Romantic Artwork: 

 

Setting up your bedroom with intimate art pieces gives off a sense of desire and what is expected in that space.

The romantic artwork also evokes emotions and memories of desire and closeness. It has the ability to re energise a tired mind and prepare it for a moment of deep connection.

Art pieces are also very visually appealing and more entertaining when they have a hidden meaning.

12. Temperature Control: 

A comfortable room temperature is often underestimated but is essential for relaxation and intimacy.

Imagine the ability to tune the room temperature to align with your vibe and desires.

The perfect temperature during cozy nights or cool freshness through cozy evenings has the ability to heighten senses.

But the mere ability to control the room creates an amazing flow of physicial connections.

13. Privacy Curtains:

 

Nothing beats intimacy expression like knowing its between just the two of you,

Creating a sense of privacy can make the space feel more intimate.

Curtains make you feel like you are in a cocoon where it’s just the two of you and the whole world fades.

Privacy curtains give you an opportunity to be unapologetically you without fear of judgement.

14. Technology-Free Zone: 

Quality undistracted time is a perfect way to cultivate intimacy.

Removing distractions like phones or tablets can help focus on each other,you can also create technology curfews.

This intentional detachment creates room for a more authentic connection.

You’ll be amazed how consistent intentional time together can positively transform your relationship.

15. Decorative Pillows: 

Comfort is paramount, invest in a comfortable mattress and pillows

These add a decorative touch to the bed and also come in handy when need be.

They envelop your intimate space with warmth, comfort, and a touch of personal style.

They are also very aesthetic making the room look inviting and cozy.